What To Know

Being a parent is one of the hardest and most rewarding jobs in the world but it can be overwhelming at times.

Most parents want to do a good job of raising their children. However, unlike other jobs where you get special training, most parents are left to do the best they can with what they know from their own experience. There’s no need to feel that you are all alone or that no one cares. The Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline is always here to help you.

The Hotline is staffed by degreed, professional counselors who are available 24 hours a day, every day of the year. All calls are anonymous and toll-free.

CALL 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) then push 1 to talk to a Hotline Counselor.

The Hotline receives calls from throughout the United States, Canada, the U.S. Virgin Islands, Guam and Puerto Rico. Communication in 170 languages is available through state-of-the-art technology that allows three-way conversations between the Hotline counselor, the caller, and a professional translator.

 

Reading Resources for Parents

My Yucky Feeling (by Anne Malver, author of My Safe PlaceFound here)

“Teaching children to trust their gut makes this book a must read for children & parents! And it’s an outstanding resource. As parents, teachers, and trusted adults it is our job to empower and educate our children. This engaging book is an important teaching tool that can save a child by letting them know they matter and they have the power within themselves. Think about donating one to your child’s school. That’s my plan!” – Judge Rosemarie Aquilina

 

Educator and author Anne Malver has worked tirelessly in an effort to help victims of abuse. Holding multiple degrees in Education and Psychology, and Graduate Certificates in Special Education and School Counseling, Anne serves her community as a School Counselor in rural Western Washington. As a survivor of childhood sexual abuse, Anne has a unique perspective which she brings to her work both as a clinician and as an author. Her book, “My Yucky Feeling” addresses the fact that we have an internal alarm system when danger is near. This can be described as My Yucky Feeling and can help keep us safe when in harm’s way. This book may be used as an additional teaching tool as part of an ongoing family dialogue about child abuse prevention education. Click here to order the book.

You can contact her by email at annemalver@gmail.com and can follow her on Instagram: @anne.malver


 

Cate’s Magic Garden (by Betsy Coffeen)

Cate's Magic Garden

Written by Betsy Coffeen

A heartwarming and lavishly illustrated picture book to remind young readers that even in the darkest of times, “words change worlds.” When Cate the caterpillar discovers a dried-up garden and the grumpy critters who call it home, it’s up to her to show Davey Dung Beetle, Pete Potato Bug, and Walter Worm how to make it bloom. Can Cate teach them to use the magic of friendship and the power of positive thinking to bring their garden back to life?

 

Betsy Coffeen is a mom, a Childhelp Wings Advisor, and a freelance writer, trying to make the world a better place one word at a time. She lives in Paradise Valley, Arizona with her husband Clay and three children. She enjoys running, yoga, traveling with her family, and devoting her time to serving the children of Childhelp. She especially wants to thank her husband, Minnesota family, cherished cousins Stephanie, and dear friend Jamie Relei Ferguson. Click here to order her book.

You can contact her by email at coffeen2@cox.net


 

Some Parts are NOT for Sharing (by Julie Federico, author of Anger is OKAY Violence is NOTFound here)

“Travel with a pair of friendly fish as they learn about what parts of our bodies we share with others. Children will learn what the boundaries of appropriate touching are in a very non-threatening way. Children will enjoy learning about their bodies as they get some important information from a pair of fish. Parents will marvel at the simple straight-forward language and use of sea creatures that create this message all children must hear.”

 

Julie Federico, M.A. is a former a middle school counselor. Violence in schools is a topic Ms. Federico understands. She was employed with Jefferson County Public School District during the 1999 Columbine High School shootings and was a first responder. Ms. Federico awarding winning children’s author of “Some Parts are NOT for Sharing” and “Anger is OKAY Violence is NOT” are children’s first books on personal safety and anger control. Click here to order the book. This book is also available in Spanish – found here.

You can contact her by email at juliefederico@gmail.com.


 

I love you so much that… (by Kathy J Picard, author of Life with My Idiot FamilyFound here)

“An enchanting story written with warmth and purpose about what love is and does to keep children safe. With soft, simple illustrations and meaningful text, this beautiful story focuses on keeping children aware of what caring adults expect, teach, and share. It should be read, shared, and talked about often. This will certainly help young minds to understand what is and isn’t love.”

 

Since 2003, Kathy Picard has worked tirelessly to raise public awareness about the prevalence and realities of childhood sexual abuse. Using her own life’s experience as a platform, she speaks to public, private and political audiences as part of her mission to expose childhood sexual abuse for the “dirty little secret” it continues to be, and to educate and inform all of us about how we can become a part of the solution. For her consistent and concerted efforts towards raising awareness, and for being an active and vocal advocate in the successful reform of the Massachusetts Statute of Limitations laws regarding sex crimes against children, she was awarded an Unsung Heroine Award, the William Pynchon Award, and Zonta International’s Founder’s Day Award. Click here to order the book.

You can contact her by email at kathychildadvocate@gmail.com.


 

Take Care of Yourself! (by Shohreh Afshar)

“When Helen, a kindergarten teacher, entered her class with a huge bag instead of her usual books, children right away realized that something different and important was going to take place that day. The story educates children to be aware of their feelings and trust them. The book also educates children what to do when facing an uncomfortable situation.”

 

Shohreh currently lives in Greater Vancouver, BC, Canada. Throughout her career, she has worked in a number of industries, such as health care and education, as a teacher, analyst, IT professional and project manager. Her formal studies were mainly in the fields of Humanities (MA), teaching/learning methods, human rights for children and child abuse prevention. While teaching, she closely observed how childhood abuse deprives a child from a happy and normal life. Equally disturbing is the shocking amount of adults, even seniors, whose entire lives were poisoned by debilitating memories of childhood abuse. These two close observations compelled her to draw on her experiences and studies to make a contribution towards preventing all forms of child abuse. Prevention requires awareness and awareness in turn requires education. This book intends to provide some basic educational material. Click here to order the book.

Other Resources

Wonderschool (Quality in-home early childhood program network)

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Wonderschool is excited to share new resources with you. Our Learn-at-Home Guides pull together research-backed ideas and activities to support learning at home. They are geared towards children 1-5 years-old, and can be scaled up if you have older children at home.

Learn more about the Wonderschool resources here.